2,556 teen days || Mess & Advice ♡

As I said in my last blog that we teenagers struggle to prove what we are not instead of who and what we are! 
We teenagers are the most misunderstood creatures on this planet. We are treated like kids and expected to behave like adults like seriously? 

 

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🎈Side effects of Parenting : During teenage years parenting feels like you know all the side effects they list on prescription drug commercials? Its like that! 

Basically, Parents try to control their kids so badly that they are like Teenager for sale. Ready with rolling eyes, deep sighs and sarcastic comments. Plays video games and text 200 people in few minutes. No reasonable offer will be refused.! I guess more of parenting feels like torture to them in our teenage years.

💛Advice : Its better you should talk to your parents and make them comfortable with who and what you are. You don't know they are very good listeners and you know what they love gossip (lol) I think guys we need to be more communicative and expressive.

🎈Top lies of teens  : We here a lot of lies till date. Top ones are :
 1) I don't have a crush.
 2) I trust nobody.
 3) I've read the terms and conditions.
We try to pretend more than doing it and it sucks like we know everything and we try to be a people pleaser every time I don't know why? and Its not even something we are comfortable with. 

💛Advice : We shouldn't lie. We should learn to accept ourselves that how we can make the change. Don't go for things that make you uncomfortable or you don't understand. It makes no difference.

🎈Personal us : We teenagers have a lot of crushes and I mean it because its no big deal to like somebody. Like you get mini heart attacks when you look at your crush and when you get into a relationship it definitely feels like a fairy tale but when you breakup it feels like death. Apart from relationships, we also go through a lot confusion among different things or people! >_< One tip for them is always remember you can love two people at same time but not at the same level.

💛Advice : You know what true love is wait I'll tell you WHAT true love is having a crush on him after he got a haircut, oh you know female mind is very strange. (just for fun, no offence) 

   okay on a serious note :
1) Somethings are better left unsaid.
2) Breakups are not the end of the world when you finally realize it you are like thank god he/she is gone because i am left with so much mistake to make :)
3) Just don't worry about people so much because at the end of the day not everyone you care about stands with you.

4) I think teenage is not the right age for dating because you're too young and we're growing and experiencing various things, it's just my personal opinion but if you found your soulmate and your family is good with it, go for it nobody can stop you.
Remember opinions don't matter. Live life.

🎈Social Media : #thesucker ~_~. For teens social media is like another trap of problems and at the same time a great way to explore. We love to connect to people but when you connect to wrong people or connect to right people but at the wrong timing. It just a waste of time, nothing else.

💛Advice: Keep your circle tight and know your real ones because at the end friends makes you who you are. You should be careful while interacting with people on social media because all problems begins there, people are not always true with their identities we all know that. Use it but with carefulness.

🎈Myths : As I said we are the most misunderstood creatures. This is what our elders think:

1. Our parents think we don't love or we don't care about them or we just don't care about anything.
2. We people are heartless and just like that since the beginning!
3. If we are on our phone the whole day that means we are talking to our boyfriend/Girlfriend. (most useless point from our parents)
4. We need to be controlled always.
5. We don't know what pain and life is all about. (I agree MOST of us don't know)

💛Advice : We have our own insecurities. Since childhood when we cried we were told to smile. Hate, Love, etc. We were never allowed to express these emotions then how we can express love now? WELL! now I don't have an answer for that!!!!!!!!!!!

So just chill :)

🎈 Rejection : I'm not only talking about a proposal but also even if your ideas get rejected. REJECTION hurts more than a breakup I guess but to be honest it doesn't matter to me at all. Rejections are the most common emotional wound we sustain in our daily life. The pain we feel can absolutely paralyzing.

💛Advice : DON'T TAKE REJECTIONS TOO PERSONALLY. Just don't freak out. To manage rejection pain just think : you have a group of friends and they want to eat butter chicken and you prefer pizza! but sadly majority wins and you also go with idea of eating butter chicken but its yummy too!!!! Just understand opinions don't matter!! SO BE HAPPY!!

🎈Fashion & stuff :We teens always try to copy others, some of us any how call ourselves next upcoming Instagram sensations or we try to be one. I guess I am a teen with a good wardrobe and just repeating the same three things and my mom yells at me! hehe. So my point is Just be yourself. 

💛Advice :  Wear whatever you want to. Fashion doesn't matter its like what other wears you need not to wear that. It doesn't mean what look good on others will look good on you too. FASHION has different definitions for different people. Its just like a finger print different for EVERYONE.

CONCLUSION :- Just be yourself. Just do whatever you want to, DANCE, SING, LAUGH, LOVE... Its your life it need not to be chained!!!! And its okay if you don't have plans or things don't go with your plans. One tip more just make your to do list. Be simple. Don't panic. Everything takes time. Don't take everything too personally. And please never call yourself that you have seen a lot in life because its not the truth and don't get sad over small things. Its not always important to find answers, Its ok to be lost sometimes. Don't get serious in life, have fun, live life. Life is too short to be sad.

So guys this is it. Just tell me hows it in comment section and let me know what kind of content you need on my blog. Just need your support and love guys. Love everyone💕

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